I could get hard when I was alone but only occasionally when I was with a girl. I felt tense and very nervous wasn't relaxed and quite often couldn't get hard at all. I would worry if I was skilled, sexy or "big" enough for her. Before going through your program I worried about myself worth for a long period of time. I feel good about my sexual performance now. Sometimes I last as long as I want and give a girl multiple orgasms. I can only get better from here.